Mr. K has been out of a job for 6 months. We never thought it would take so long for him to find a job and there is no way to know how much longer it will be. It is difficult to see a talented, hard-working man not be used to his full potential in a work-place environment, though he has been very productive at home and helpful to many others in his volunteer services.
The waiting is difficult, but the understanding of God’s timing is not. There are many examples of God staying his hand to answer prayer so we take comfort from these examples in the Bible. We believed in God’s faithfulness when Mr. K had a job, why would we stop now? We knew God loved us when Mr. K had a job, does he loves us less now? Of course not, that would be ridiculous! God is rich in mercy, overflowing with grace, giving us His best every day.
The other day, Mr. K drove over an hour to drop off a care package for The Boy who is working as a counselor at a Christian camp for the summer. They didn’t get to see each other there, but The Boy texted later to say thank you. He wrote, “You got all my favorites! How did you know I was almost out of gum?” A father knows what his son loves. A father goes out of his way to meet his son’s needs and to make him feel loved and special. There is nothing Mr. K wouldn’t do for the Boy and over the years he has proven his love, care, and sacrifice over and over again. God loves us the same way. We trust God knowing that our value is not in what we do but in who we are in Christ Jesus. The job will come when the timing is right.
When I was a young mom I met a lovely woman at church who was the epitome of everything I admired. She was smart, friendly, and kind. She had a wonderful husband and family, an interesting job, and she was as pretty as a model. She invited me over for lunches and we had play dates with our kids in her spacious home. I envied her uncluttered house. I envied her huge yard. I envied HER. It was a struggle for me in my dumpy, lumpy, frumpy state to see her have all the things I wanted for myself and I had to pray for God to help me with my attitude. My friend was transparent in sharing her life with me and I saw that there was nothing fake or contrived about her. She was genuinely sweet and wise and deeply spiritual, but I found out that her life was not as simple and charmed as I thought.
She told me about her medical issues, financial difficulties, and problems with extended family members. I was heartbroken to learn about the abuse she suffered in her childhood. She shared her life with me as a testimony of how God carried her through her many trials. I saw her blessings and assumed it had all been easy for her, but I didn’t know about all she went through. It is just like when I see the pictures and events people post on Facebook which are the highlighted moments and not the whole story.
No one is exempt from trials. Christ followers do not live in an isolated blessing bubble. I sure don’t. People may think my life is perfect but they do not know about my hardships. I am exceedingly grateful for what I have and I do not envy anyone their blessings because I do not know what soul-shaping events they went through that I never want to experience myself. When the hard days come, I will praise God for my blessings, hold tight to His peace, and post my highlights on Facebook.